Today let's talk about something that happens almost everytime. Marriages crash and some survive the storm. I was talking to one of my friends lately and she just kept saying she is tired of her husband's siblings living in her house. She highlighted that privacy has become very hard for her and her husband, and they have argued over this matter more than once.(Which is very unlike them to fight each other)
The thing is, for an early marriage, it is really hard living with other people but it also depends on the family you are married to.
Some husbands or wives are bread winners where they come from and sometimes they have no choice than to pick one or two of their siblings in order to reduce the burden on their family. It might look like a good thing to do but I feel it has a negative effect on the marriage most times cause the couple might never get enough time to bond with each other, at least before the kids come.
Mine is just one person's opinion out of over billions of people here on earth, what do you think?
Is it ok to house your spouse's siblings in your early marriage?
Its absolutely unacceptable!!!!!!! Give me space, u had where u were living bfore I married ur broda so stay there! I get irritated a lot... My husband nd I must have discussed about relatives living with us..it can't happen! Come and visit and go back.. #dat Ajaji Sista#
ReplyDeleteI can allow my husband's brothers but never for my husband's sisters.
ReplyDeleteI would rather rent a house for them and pay for it with my money than live with any of my husband's relatives.
ReplyDeleteAm with the ajaji sister on this one....a visit is enough...#ogbeobi lady#
ReplyDeleteLol isyberry your illah girls are blog visitors nice
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