Please help me share this with your readers. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years now and he proposed in December 2013 and we plan to get married in April. Before him, I dated a guy who I loved so much but was a player. I got pregnant for him and he forced me to have several abortions which I did.
Since then, I moved on but realized I've never gotten pregnant even by mistake for my fiancee. Yesterday, he raised the issue up.He said he finds it strange that all his friend's girlfriends have gotten pregnant atleast once while dating but I never have.He said all his ex have gotten pregnant before.
I picked up a fight and told him I have been on contraceptives and all. Now he said we should try getting pregnant first before marriage. He told me to drop my contraceptives and that since we are getting married anyway, why do I need them.
I'm scared he won't marry me if I don't get pregnant and being an Igbo boy and me Delta, I suspect his mum raised the issue . I'm scared the problem is from me.
Now I 'm 30 and can't afford to lose this guy. How to I make him marry me before letting him find out whatever problem it is I have?
Please help me
Label:misspetitenigeria
My opinion on this is quite mixed, you are 30 it's hard to lose a 4 year relationship at that age, no time to waste time
But again you and your fiancé haven't really been nice to the children that have come your way as abortion wasn't so far away from all your relationships. Just maybe God has decided to punish you. Lol ok that sounded wicked.
But really go get tested by a gynaecologist to know if you can still get pregnant and be sure there is nothing wrong? What do you think guys??
Wicked woman.... Yu must get that belle first.... Baga
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