RELATIONSHIP TICKLE: UNWANTED PREGNANCY

OK i don come again right, yet another trival relationship issue. i get alot of views but you guys hardly get to comment and share your opinions. unlike other posts, a relationship tickle should be an interractive one were we all get to learn from each other.
Today i went out to my tailor trust gossip centers, you get them fresh and juicy. today's topic was about girls who just get pregnant with no caution at all and you wont believe the high level of pregnant girls and single mothers out here in Nigeria. really sad
3 cases were treated today and while i scrolled through the magazine piles of styles in vogue, my ears were really busy keeping busy hehehe listening to fresh aproko. i heard them talk about one girl who lives with a guy down the street, and was bearly even 21 she had moved in with the guy shortly after she got pregnant and was disgraced out of her parent's one room apartment as the parents cried out that they couldnt cater for anyone else as it would be an extra pile of baggage to them.
Not long after another woman brought up the case of her niece who was pregnant with the second child and had no husband as she was abandoned by the father of her kids who travelled to all the way south africa and never bothered to call or text.
The third one was just too bad for me, cause hers was a troubling case of abuse and unwanted pregnancy. i just kept sighing as they went on and on about her stupid ways... well its not story telling time. at least no story without a lesson... why get pregnant with all the protective measures available now if you know you cant cater for the baby? you put yourself in a troubling situation as both you, the father and the baby end up having sad moments and had i known thoughts.
The issue is would you keep a baby you cant cater for? what ever happened to condoms?and if you were the father of the unborn child, would you want a baby out of wedlock or abandon you child when born?