Monday, 27 May 2013

RELATIONSHIP TICKLE:HOW LONG IS TO LONG BEFORE HE POPS THE QUESTION???

14:54    5 comments

 OK alot of people have this question in their hearts and minds but i'm going to do them a favour and ask anyways.. Mbok how long is too long before a guy should pop the question? girls want to know even guys that keep relationships for hundred months and still wont take the step forward deserve to be corrected.
isy thinks... its better to get married once you are sure of the person.. it doesnt have to take years cause you might just get tired of them and that is not too good.

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  1. babyreal27 May 2013 at 17:25

    I would say sometimes men do have good reasons for delaying the big question; u know, academics might be in d way, an on-going project might be a set back, family consent sometimes, and finances for many can be one huge genuine reason for delaying. So, I'll say as soon as u see no huge barriers/threats or at least ones u have the barriers under good control, u can pop d question! Just make sure to keep d communication reasonably good btw u and ur partner during d "wait period", make sure she understands ur efforts, don't just keep mute! Cos truly these wait period can be frustrating for many ladies... All the same, guys should be allowed to pop d question just when the time is right for both parties! Ciao!

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    1. Anonymous28 May 2013 at 01:51

      very well said ! but the truth is can guys ever live past barriers? they seems to always have excuses.. what will i say is holding me and my boyfriend of 7 years from walking down the aisle? he is financially stable, his parents love me at least i think they do.....wat more?

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  2. Anonymous30 May 2013 at 04:30

    7years relationship? Wetin una dey do nah? Anyways! Talking from the angle of a geniune man, when you see what you want in a woman and both parents consented; finance should never be a barrier bcos marriage is God's investment and He can never get involved untill our (guys) mind is made and date is fixed......God invest in marriages to harvest Godly children. I've seen anyone (including myself) that did these and got disaapointed "IT'S POSSIBLE". So guys should stop telling their ladies "let's be flowing" flowing to where? Are you rivers of living water.....lol

    I'm happily married to a woman I met and propose to in one month with 8k in my account! But immediately, wedding date was fixed, God showed up and wiped our shame. But today, whatever money can buy is not our problem. Gensis 1:26....let's us make man in our image and unto our likeness and let them (man & wife) have dominion over.......

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  3. Anonymous30 May 2013 at 04:30

    7years relationship? Wetin una dey do nah? Anyways! Talking from the angle of a geniune man, when you see what you want in a woman and both parents consented; finance should never be a barrier bcos marriage is God's investment and He can never get involved untill our (guys) mind is made and date is fixed......God invest in marriages to harvest Godly children. I've seen anyone (including myself) that did these and got disaapointed "IT'S POSSIBLE". So guys should stop telling their ladies "let's be flowing" flowing to where? Are you rivers of living water.....lol

    I'm happily married to a woman I met and propose to in one month with 8k in my account! But immediately, wedding date was fixed, God showed up and wiped our shame. But today, whatever money can buy is not our problem. Gensis 1:26....let's us make man in our image and unto our likeness and let them (man & wife) have dominion over.......

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  4. Anonymous30 May 2013 at 18:48

    Ha! 8k! This your story is truly a miracle! What if help didn't come as quickly as hoped for? Mmmmn, Personally I won't advice anyone to get into a marriage without some kind of a financial plan that will help cater for the couple and the kids. I know their is God but I hate to put God to test in that kind of way. A marriage is an institution worth saving for, and worth planning for... For the lady with d 7 yrs relationship, 7 yrs is a really long time u know. pls tell us, r u sure this man is not already enjoying all d benefits of marriage while he is still a bachelor? otherwise y is he so relaxed! He is not even afraid of loosing u! Or u sef don dey make him feel say u don xpire for d dating market? Pls pls, I suggest u think of a good way to help him make up his mind. Have a straight talk with him, or make urself scarce, give him an ultimatum, let him miss u a little, or anytin u can think of dat can work. Just do something! If he really cares, he'll sit up and make up his mind for u, if he really doesn't care, then I tink d earlier u start afresh, the better for u...

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