RELATIONSHIP TICKLE: CAUGHT IN THE TRIANGLE....'A is in love with B and B is in love with C.'

Loving someone who loves someone else
Culled from www.letswowyou.com
Hi people and happy new month to you all. Following the trend, I will like to
say a big thank you to the readers and buyers of this magazine for the love
and great response shown to the blog. I am sorry for not replying all your
well-appreciated messages, comments and mails. Know that I am on it and
you’ll get my reply as soon as possible.

This month, I will like to share with you the well-known love triangles situation
we often find ourselves. We love the ones that like us and like the ones
that love us. The typical triangle shape has three sides and is joined at three
ends. So also is a love triangle: A is in love with B and B is in love with C.
Sometimes we fall in love with people that we least expect to be with, but
that’s what love does. ‘It makes ordinary things look extraordinary.’ These
love situations will keep happening but what I have come to understand is
that when you find yourself in such situations, you have to find your own
way out personally. It is not new for us to love and not be loved back, but
what is new is people not making bold steps to move on in such situations.
The way you define yourself and place your expectations matters a lot. Because
that is the same way other people will look at and value you.
In the course of this study, I threw open the topic to the followers of the
magazine online and here are some responses I got.
Question:
When you find yourself loving someone who is clearly in love with someone
else, the typical A loves B and B loves C situation, what’s the next line
of action?
Answers:
@Meollymefamous says:
For me, if I ever find myself in a love triangle I will use my head and leave
the guy ’cause he is in love with somebody else.
@Urubaby says:
Talk is cheap but if I find myself in a fix, I will learn to love the one that
loves me and let the other one go.
@Deboske says:
I will leave her, because her heart is no longer with me. Staying with her will
be a waste of our time. Life is too short to be a second choice, so I’ll move
on.
I could only pick out a few for the purpose of this writing. Like @urubaby
said, TALK IS CHEAP; you will never be sure of what to do till you find
yourself in such situations. So, if ever you find yourself in a love triangle
please consider the following:
DEFINE WHAT YOU WANT
Sometimes as humans we confuse ourselves with what is and what will be.
Do you want to be in a love-filled or loveless relationship? Is it worth it to
let go of the one that loves you for the one you love? Weigh your options and
make a choice.
LOVE FOR THE RIGHT REASONS
Sometimes we often let the right people go for the wrong reasons. After
defining what exactly it is you want for yourself, stating the basis for loving
is next in line. And when you are doing this be sure to know that no one
is perfect and as mortals we are prone to mistakes. Now learning from our
mistakes is what makes us better.

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